We often don't realize how what we do, think, or speak affects other people. Not just the people in our lives now, but future generations. We won't see how our feelings will influence our future children and grandchildren. Chaos breeds chaos. If you grow up in in chaos, you will probably put yourself in chaotic situations. Stop and think about that for a minute, have you ever wondered why you gravitate toward certain behaviors? You probably grew up seeing those behaviors, it's what you know. If your not careful, you will perpetuate the cycle in your own family. I know, because my life was chaotic from the start. I never really knew anything else. How do we let our children grow up in those situations? Its not fair to let them see our petty arguments, hear cursing, or see violence. They deserve better than that. But its not just our children and grandchildren that are affected, Their children and grandchildren will suffer the consequences. I really believe that things like that are passed down. Just like the color of your eyes or the crook in your smile, your anger, hatred and intolerance are passed down too. What they hear you say or see you do is very important at a young age. How much is nature and how much is nurture I don't know, but I do know that it is a problem. We are feeding our children bad attitudes and indirectly serving their children bitterness. The bible says in James 3 talks about the tongue.
"Even so the tongue is a little member, and boasteth great things. Behold how great things a little fire kindleth!" James 3:5
You can see that the tongue is important. It is a small part of the body, but it is essential to everyday life. We need to think about what we say, how we say it, and more importantly, what our actions are saying to the people around us. Especially what they are saying to the little ones watching us.
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